Moving forward

[Former-Member]

Oh, missed all that @TAB, did you have your crapola going again?, its easy to upset people here, no body language etc. Its wise to tread carefully, there's a lot of fragile people around.

[Appleblossom]

do whatever you like @TAB I gave myself a talking too ... for giving straight advice .. which I actually dont approve of .. lol .. but I think I annoyed you, and others, by being round about in my statements. Ah well ..

I think my alert is always on for conflict ... but I know that I need to learn to roll with it more ... not let it be a total blow up ... there are so many things we think .. we can only agree on so much ..

@Former-Member also thinking about @Former-Member but also dont know what to do .. she is great at being supportive .. and I have to trust that her process will help her through  ... I actually do believe ... we need to find our own solutions

reading up  http://dulwichcentre.com.au/articles-about-narrative-therapy/

but it has been my belief from the beginning .. dont give advice .. as we get chockers with it .. and it usually suits the advice giver

[TAB]

..slowly slowly starting to realise that @Former-Member .. and yes, re context etc .but wasn't expecting that a week after the fact, and I wayy over reacted .. anyway ..stuff happens, and she really did nothing wrong, I tried the 'olive leaf' thing oh well

[TAB]

do what you do @Appleblossom I'm getting used to it, it's fine.. I've just got to get a thicker skin and sort my own stuff out.

[Appleblossom]

we all bleed when cut .. and dont always know when our own hard won views are opposed to or trigger someone.

I hope you all come through it .. it has also been good having the easy-going banter about

I am tired now so might hit the sack ... I prefer gentleigh bentleigh ... but theres a place for other ways

Night

[Faith-and-Hope]

Hi @Former-Member @Appleblossom @TAB 🌷💜

Don't know if I've caught you all ....

Just woke up from the iPad-face thing ....

@Former-Member has been around passively this afternoon .... "liking" occasionally .... I think that was her intention from something posted this morning .... just to take it as it came today, but stay around as a part of mindfulness ....

Hugs @Former-Member .... 💜💕.... 😘

Heading back to sleep again ....

See y'all 2moro .... ❣

[TAB]

..schlaf gut @Appleblossom.. was just on emergency run to servo for food .. funny, as I walked out 'All You Need is Love' by Beatles was playing ..

[Faith-and-Hope]

Morning Everybody .... 😊

How'r you going @Former-Member .... 🌷💕

[Kurra]

Walking beside you @Former-Member 💕

[Former-Member]

Thanks for your support @Kurra, @Faith-and-Hope, @TAB, @Appleblossom, @Former-Member

Im OK and hoping to be through the worst of it but just trying to climb out of the dark hole and start living again. Back to baby steps 😏. 

I think I will be a bit hit and miss on the forum whilst I try to sort myself out.

thanks again 💜💜💜💐💐💐