Tabaluga's

[Meowmy]

@TAB hey tabby, hope you had good sleep. Raining  here. Take care

[TAB]

Good Morning @Meowmy 

@StuF @Bill16 

[Glisten]

Good morrow Tabalugians @TAB @Meowmy @StuF @Bill16 

What does Wednesday have in store for you?

[TAB]

lol @Glisten  ..very little happening here today. maybe a job application. maybe msg someone fm course with query about proof of doing out of date courses. about to look up website. I think a simple way around it is to put them in my trainer matrix. 

ie nominate current unit of competency then saw what course I did and my experience.

What are you up to today ?

[Glisten]

@TAB I understood about half of what you wrote 😆 I have lost the ability to speak education 🤓

Today is Deadline Day. My ex HeadlikeaBowlingBall has 9hours & 45 minutes to accept my “Ballsy” settlement offer or my lawyer files Family Court application orders tomorrow morning at 9am.

He has been delaying his disclosures for months. Obviously information he doesn’t want me to know.

Married his new Nurse & Purse, locking in someone to bankroll his gambling addiction.

He trained me to be too paralysed with fear to take action. He is so used to arguing in Industrial Commissions that he would believe that he can argue his way out of this situation.

Thank you for letting me waffle.

I’m going to go get more masking tape, do some sanding and painting.

Might go give Lenny & Mac a carrot 🥕 

The wind 🌬️ here is insane.

[TAB]

 trainer matrix is like my wish list for what I want to train and justification for that. ie courses (which are units of competency these days)

just rang safework SA and dead-ended. they say High Risk card on its own should be enough, plus they dont have info on provenance of my forklift licence . ( i got it put on card years ago when renewing it.) it was non-accredited backin 1994 when I originally did it) but they accepted it in 2016 and now its on my card

Person spoke with  said it was 'odd ' they place with job wanted units of competency

[Former-Member]

Thats really terrible about ex but that is what they do. He sounds quite volatile @Glisten. After my rotten ex it took years for me to find me feet. I now have peace in my life. Well you are rid of him now so hopefully you can begin to start closing that awful chapter in your life and put him to shame.

I just somehow found a way to get on with living and my 40's turned out to be the best times in my life ever! I wish that for you. If you get a payout thats good but the main thing is to embrace your empowerment and make him look like the dill he really is. 

[Glisten]

Absolutely @Former-Member You paraphrased my lawyer.

She said “We have all your evidence. It’s up to him to supply his evidence. That’s where he’ll slip up.”

I was just chatting to a friend and said, what use to scare me the most, was when he would try to mimic empathy.

He could never get it right and it was horror movie like. Seriously macabre.

[Former-Member]

These people wear masks and try to mimic behaviours that are acceptable but its not authentic. They infiltrated the hippie era in the 60's with "all the right overtures" to get a foothold as an imposter. There was nothing flower power about them. There was nothing genuine about them. They just see people as a means to be used. At least we know these people exist and can act as a beacon to other people who might get caught up in their dragnet @Glisten. I'm hoping for a good outcome for you when you hear back from your lawyer. Its just a shame yet another woman has deceived and will face the same pain you did. I don't think she would believe you if you told her. They (your ex) just have elaborate friendship networks to cover up their tracks. At least you know hes gone for good now. I'm just sorry you had to go through it all. Celibacy can look really good after people like this! Just enjoy your life and treat the man like he never existed. 

[Bill16]

How goes it cool forum friends @Meowmy @TAB @StuF @Glisten @Jacques @Oaktree @greenpea @ENKELI @Former-Member hopefully you are having a good day,mine not so good, getting my top teeth pulled out