05-12-2017 11:53 PM
05-12-2017 11:53 PM
Dear @greenpea
I just think that if we just concentrate on that card for the day.....or afternoon........or maybe week........
I dont know if we can let go of our anger or hurt straight away......
maybe we or you use focus to put into other parts of ourselves.
Like: using focus to just today and then, maybe do what is right for you to reflact on that word if you want.........
Or if we are ready to think about how focus can change the parts of ourselves.
I dont think that if you look at forgive straight away......it feels a bit much. Sorry to be so upfront.
05-12-2017 11:56 PM
05-12-2017 11:56 PM
omg... @Former-Member your words are great.....
I really like disipline. I wish there was more out there for ourselves hey.....I wish I had more dicipline in my daily program.........
Grace is a beautiful word........
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06-12-2017 08:17 AM
06-12-2017 08:17 AM
@PeppiPatty Hi PeppiPatty I think forgiveness is a personal thing each to their own. Sometimes I just have to forgive regardless of what evils were done to me otherwise I get bitter and hateful and I would feel 'they' have won. For me I would hate them to see me focusing all my energy on hating them when I could be enjoying the most simplest of pleasures like I am right now sitting here and talking to you and having a cup of coffee.
Like I said each to their own. Everyone deals with pain in their own way and for me forgiveness (not forgetting mind) works.
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