β13-09-2017 11:52 AM
β13-09-2017 11:52 AM
Something to spur you on @Former-Member
β14-09-2017 02:55 AM
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Good morning @Former-Member - you have worked like the proverbial trooper and I'm sure that the results show that. And now your poor body is feeling the effects of all the labour.
First inspection today is a big deal. It only takes one buyer. Is there much more that you want to sort out at this stage or can you have a bit of a break to recover? Emotionally too, you must be feeling quite overwhelmed. Not knowing what the future looks like can be a bit scary. At least you are considering many options and have looked into them. Good to do that before making that all important decision.
Where is it that you would like to travel to? Have you got some destinations in mind? Maybe put your things in storage and take off for a bit, then sort things out when you return. Could you stay with your parents for a bit until you figure it out or is that not feasible?
I am renting at the moment and have half the proceeds of my home. I could well afford to buy a place outside the city but not here at the moment. This place has been leased over twelve months now. Have been living here since February; settled my daughter in here before that. I don't feel like it's home. It took me a couple of months to buy myself a bed even. I was sleeping on the floor on an air mattress until then.
Not sure what I will do down the track. Just because my kids are here that I am too but have itchy feet at the moment and want to have a change of scenery.
Will you be around for the inspection or out at work or plan to make yourself scarce anyway? I hope the real estate agent has some good feedback for you.
Seems as though your little birdies are loving their new home. A name for your Bourke finch - Bourke would be the obvious choice. Or Atticus as in the lawyer from To K*ll a Mockingbird. What about the female? Does she have a name?
I'm sure your son will come around and see you soon. He has a lot on his plate with his work and arm. Good that you have been communicating with him. Must be a bit emotional for him to see you selling up. Does he have much of his stuff there? Things he wants to have with him now?
Thinking of you.
β14-09-2017 07:24 AM
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β14-09-2017 09:58 PM
β14-09-2017 09:58 PM
Hope you've had a good day @Former-Member. Wondering how the inspection went.
β14-09-2017 11:30 PM
β14-09-2017 11:30 PM
Hi @Former-Member
What a huge decision - to sell up with all that entails - to go through the past layers of your life in a house you have lived in since you were in a family and what to do? Wow!!
Actually - I hate to tell you this but 150K is not much money at all when it comes to real estate - even out in the country - I had a look at real estate prices in Lakes Entrance when I was there - really cheap compared with the city but like I said - 150K is not much money at all
It's a lot to think about - for me - I am staying in rental accomadation - I like to take my trips every so often - but it would be great to get into real estate but not actually good reality
So I gather you have a lot of ideas - let's see how time hatches out
I forget who said it now but this was your son's home and his security - but he is an adult now and it is time for you to move on - I had to do this unaware that my daughter wanted to live in the old house but that was something I had to get rid of - too many sorrowful memories - I know you have them too
I stopped getting notifications so I have to look around the forum to find people - which is working out better I think - I was often overwhelmed with the amount of mail in my in-box so this is better
Thinking of you Lapses
Dec
β15-09-2017 03:48 AM
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β15-09-2017 03:55 AM
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Never mind - it was only the first one @Former-Member. Why are we both awake at this hour? Are you okay my friend?
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My broken house
My dream house
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what to do? Rent like most everyone else I guess π
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