12-12-2024 08:49 PM
12-12-2024 08:49 PM
@TAB hey tabby, yea. Tabby looking back life was so tough with oppressive and mentally ill parents.
12-12-2024 08:54 PM
12-12-2024 08:54 PM
when I think back there was a time when father seemed happy, just remember most of the time he did not talk to us, was mentally ok verbally abusive to mother all day, every day plus never laet her have any money or go anywhere there's a name for it now ok 'Coercive Control' .. plus he had PTSD and some sort of God complex ...
12-12-2024 09:23 PM
12-12-2024 09:23 PM
@TAB hey tabby, well both got through diffucult parents ha and we are both more comfortable with ourselves.ha
12-12-2024 09:30 PM - last edited yesterday
12-12-2024 09:30 PM - last edited yesterday
I was the bad person , sister got more help from parents than I could have ever imagined. she was saying wanted her share of parents money as 'why shouldnt she be rewarded for doing well' despite having millions... they were given money for wedding (obv I never got lol) etc etc
12-12-2024 09:42 PM
12-12-2024 09:42 PM
@Meowmy that is the loveliest thing, I needed to hear.
Thank you for being my friend 🌻
12-12-2024 09:54 PM
12-12-2024 09:54 PM
@TAB hey tabby, you're a good person. You will do well as trainer
12-12-2024 09:56 PM
12-12-2024 09:56 PM
.. ha yeah @Meowmy maybe start my own company, no one else wants to employ me .. lolo ............... re Trainer ..
12-12-2024 10:05 PM
12-12-2024 10:05 PM
@TAB hey tabby, you will find something that interests you and you can keep going
12-12-2024 10:08 PM
12-12-2024 10:08 PM
I dont really want to be a librarian that badly that will add another $12-20k for post grad cert/diploma
@Meowmy am starting to realise I invested a bit in this freaken course , anyhoo, maybe have to travel interstate re bad employers here....
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